Over-Thinking and how to help it

 Over-Thinking

            Over-thinking is something everyone has. It can be good or bad. For some people that suffer from depression or anixtey, it's mostly bad overthinking and over-thinking isn't always good. Now I'm talking about this because, I am the queen of over-thinking. I over think so much that I will start to feel sick or so much I will get sick. It can get bad but here are some ways to help it. 

How to help over-thinking

1. Meditaion 

2. Keep a log of any thoughts that pop up

3. Talk to a friend about what your thinking 

4. Don't think what bad can happen but think about what good can happen

Moving out of your parents house

    We all get to that point in our lives where we move out of our parents house or at least think of it. I know I have. Many times. Trying to find a job is kinda hard right now with COVID but applying even in hard times is better then nothing. 2020 has not been the best year ever. In fact people say its been the worst year in history. Do I blame them? NO because this year has sucked. 

That time of the year again

 Welp, 

It is offically back to school month and I know all of you are not looking forward to it becasue of covid. I know alot of schools are doing 2 days in person with 2 different groups then having one day of cleaning the whole school and other schools may put marks in the hall. But who knows at this point. 

For me well, I don't have to worry about school right now. I graduated high school and I'm waiting on college till I get my feet on soid ground.

I know for others it will be harder going to school with masks and probably not being able to hug thier friends. I mean the little kids like pre-k to elementary/middle will have a hard time keeping a mask on for 5 1/2 - 6 hours. But hopefully this whole thing will just go away soon.

Stay Strong Everyone.

-Daisy

<3

💔July 17th,2014💔

It's been 6 years without you. And it has not been easy.We went to school together and one day your just gone during the summer. Everyone couldn't get past this. Some people still haven't. Like me. You were here with us one day and then gone the next. It was after our 6th grade year, we had just finished it and summer had begun. Everyone was so ready for summer. Swimming,playing and seeing friends. But no one could have guessed what was gonna happen during summer. June went by like nothing and when july hit, eveyrthing slowed down. Summer went by slower and slower every single day. July 17th had come and it was all over the news. I got a text on facebook from our friend Sean and Caroline asking if I had saw the news. I said no and went to check. I went to the news chanel and there it was. A 12 year old boy was dead. I prayed that it was not you. But it was. Your photo had came up on the screen and I broke down crying. You were gone. 12 years old, just finished 6th grade year. It was the hardest thing we all every went through. Summer ended and we all went back to school. The first day back after you passed was so hard. I sat next to  you in class and I cried when I sat down. We all stood up and had a moment of silence. It lasted for 5 minutes. The day just felt like it would never end. 

Smile :)

I know things can be hard sometimes but you just gotta keep pushing through and you'll get there. I know it doesn't seem like it right now but you will. I promise. If you ever need a friend to talk to or just vent leave a comment with your email and I will personally reach out to you and talk to you as long as you need. 

 

Stay Strong Everyone.

-Daisy

<3

 

Words

Words do hurt people. They can hurt from feelings like a small paper cut to thousands of pins and needles that are poking you. They also have different effects on people. Words have so much more power than people think they do. People think that if they say something that it won't be heard but it does. It is heard, no matter what. Everything is heard. People don't truly know how much words hurt. People think that words don't mean anything and they can just say whatever they want to but they can't. People can act like the words people say don't hurt them or they just brush it off like a piece of dusk on your shirt but it does hurt them. Even if they don't show it does, it really does. 

Words can hurt people more then they ever know. The person or people who say mean things to someone are most likely hurting within them self or maybe they arent but 95% of the time, people bully others because they don't like who they are or maybe they are hurting and no one wants to listen to them.

First Day Of School

Ah yes,
The first day of school. Where kids are excited to see thier friends and tell them everything they did over the summer. I remember being like that when I was little. But now. Not so much. I mean yeah I'm excited to see my friends but I'm a senior in high school. My last year. Before everything changes and I have to start Adulting. Well I had to start already but  senior year of high school is a big deal. Cuz you have college sign ups and seeing what colleges you want. Less school time (if you have senior privilege) . There's just a lot senior year in high school.